Sunday, September 28, 2008

~relationship~

wat a bored day for me, nothing to do lazying around...lolz...today afternoon slept too much dy now cant sleep so early dy...lolz...wat to do??? so comes here to blogging...sometimes, i have been wondering why must human being in this world must get into relationship? i dont understand why must bring suffer to ourselves? N after broke up izzit really possible still can remain frends with ur ex??? what if ur ex did some things to u that cannot be forgive nor forget?? will u forgive him/her?? if yes, izzit bcoz u pity, sympathy to him/her??? or still cant forget him/her??? giving u n him/herself another chance to patch back again?? to those who has been hurt u before izzit worth to forgiving them?? i dun really understand y must force ourselves to do smth that we dont feel like to do it?? another thing, if ur ex come bek to u again will u accept him/her again?? i really dunno what i shud do....some frends told me b4 he can dump for the 1st time at the same he might be dump u for 2nd again...so, what for?? although still got feel towards him but we still have to face the reality. shub i b more optimistic towards love?? i juz wan to protect myself for not being hurt again. those feels really unbearable. i just want to treat everyone around me as friends but i dunno why there are still some stupid guys likes to think that i m in love in them??? y??? lolz....izzit bcoz they never been love by others? tats y they super sensitive?? i m admit that sometimes i may be too good with guys frends but not only towards particular person...but to everyone wat...as almost all of my frends know it. back to the point juz now, izzit possible that after broke up still can remain friend with ur ex??? still can be but only hi-bye frends i tink?? i tried to bcum frends with him again but feels damn reluctant as i know still got feels towards him...lolz...useless?? haha....2day got a lil bit emo...heee




once it is broken nothing can amended it anymore. saying sorry or whatever apologise it was already too late....
















|emo voyage|

3 comments:

white feather said...

hey chill la .. y la so emo.. it's not the mei ling i know.. mei ling i know is damn chilling and cool one..what for wanna go back to a guy that hurt u before ,, is it worth it ?? so many guys outside there.. u worry u cant find one . pls laa.. i know u can do better .. screw him la.. have fun with ur friends n dont get so emo over him.. okay... cheer up dear,, will always be there for u .. muacks muacks

Anonymous said...

"izzit possible that after broke up still can remain friend with ur ex???"
As for tht ques, personally, I tink yes, one can, if he/she has no more love feelings towards him dy... If the feelings still there, it'll much difficult and sometimes it's better to contact ex back ONLY after u hv recovered... the ques of close frenz or not, i guess depends.. if the ex ady hv another bf/gf, i dun tink ex will be a very close fren to u dy.. all these just my point of view only. =)

as for ques of accepting ex back if he/she asks to get back again...
I tink if the 2 really loves each other n hv misunderstanding b4 tht, it's ok to get back.. but if d reason of split b4 tis is still not solved now, no point of getting back again... i guess, it's all depends on each special case.. No one able to give a correct ans for tht, except urself...

well.. it's true tht there r soooo many guys out there.. u need not to worry tht u may lose ur fated one.. if HE IS your fated one, IN THE END, he'll be.. u need not to worry so much.. love is not supposed to be worried so much.. just enjoy life as it is... =)

guess I hv crapped a lot here... take care my fren.. bye.. =)

-vOyAgE-giRL said...

my dear tiew tiew....thanks for ur encouragements ehh...lolz...u say 1...always b thr for me....lolz...makes sure u do that...lolz...
hi anonymous...may i noe who r u??? lolz...neway, thanks for ur comments too...